Little dog Ruby is missing her companion.
She’s going through a whole gamut of emotions since we said goodbye to Arty. There’s sadness, confusion and quietness. Sometimes she’s clingy and then the next minute she just wants to be left alone.
I’m making a fuss of her when she wants it but I’m also respecting her choice when she wants to slink off quietly in a corner. I’ll be keeping a close eye on her over the next few weeks and months.
We all handle grief differently and our own feelings change constantly. It’s only natural. And so it is with dogs. Ruby knows Arty is gone and things are not the same. She will take time to get used to it.
There is a lot of good advice on the internet about how to help a dog deal with the death of another dog. I am in no hurry to get a new dog, although that could be a possibility further down the line.
At the moment, I’m sticking to Ruby’s routine so she can feel that life goes on. And I’m spending more time playing with her and trying to teach her some new tricks. If Covid restrictions permit, I’m going to organise a few doggy dates for Ruby so she has a canine friend to play with every now and then.
Have you ever been faced with a similar situation? How did you and your dog cope? I’d love to hear your suggestions.
That’s about it.
Love Maddie x